We went to bed early last night and I fell asleep in DH’s arms, so I’m feeling much better today.

I realize that my DH doesn’t only stress about the cost of IVF, but also about car seats, school fees, a prom dress, university..

True, raising a kid is expensive enough without having to spend thousands on ART. However, I’d rather have the kiddie now (rather than never) and then worry about later on later on. DH sees it as ultimately his responsibility to provide for the wife and kiddies, so it’s harder for him to make peace with the costs of ART.